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Setting an intention can help you make your vision of your relationship a reality.


Add a pinch of novelty to your relationship
Novelty is the spice that keeps your relationship fresh.

Try this game of touch
Expressing our desires and our boundaries in sex is important, but not always easy. Try this game to take the pressure off!

The power of gratitude
Science is proving the power of gratitude. Try this experiment and feel the power of gratitude for yourself!

Get spicy with role play
Role play can enhance your sex life, provide opportunities for personal growth, and strengthen your bond with your partner.

What scares you?
We all have raw spots that drive our fears and reactions in our relationship. Identifying your own raw spot and then sharing this with your partner is a way to join together against your fears.

Caught in the storm
For one pursuer, getting caught up in the dance of disconnection with her partner is like getting caught in a storm. How do they team up to calm the waters?

Stuck behind the wall
What’s it like when a wall goes up between you and your partner? Here’s one withdrawer’s experience, and how she and her partner work together to create a door in the wall.

How to turn up the heat
In just a few moments each day, simmering helps you and your partner turn up the heat on your intimate life.

We stopped our dance. Now what?
Now you are able to recognize and stop your Disconnecting Dance. How do you have a different kind of conversation?